Family demands stronger charges in Melville DWI crash that killed father

Family demands stronger charges in Melville DWI crash that killed father on Lie in Melville Suffolk County Nov 24, 2025.

Updated Nov 24, 2025
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What Happened

A fatal DWI crash in Melville has left a family demanding stronger charges after 28-year-old Joseph Melendez was killed while riding an e-bike on Oct. 25, according to News 12 Long Island. Police say 24-year-old Jennifer Kirkpatrick crashed into Melendez near the intersection of Bagatelle Road and the South Service Road around 1 a.m.

Kirkpatrick has been charged with DWI, but Melendez’s family says the charges do not reflect the seriousness of the crash or the loss of their loved one. The victim’s sister, Rubi, described her brother as a devoted father to his 7-year-old son. “He was a good father, a good brother, a good son,” she told News 12. “He brightened the whole room when he walked in.”

The family says they are still struggling to process Melendez’s death and its impact on his young son. A growing memorial of teddy bears and candles now marks the Melville intersection where the fatal collision occurred, according to the report.

Adding to the family’s frustration, they say they were initially told the first court date would be held Nov. 20 but later learned it had already been held Monday. The case has since been adjourned to Dec. 22, prosecutors confirmed.

Family members are now urging prosecutors to pursue manslaughter charges against Kirkpatrick. “They don’t see us,” Rubi said. “I feel like if it was a person of color or a Hispanic person, they would’ve been held, they would’ve been charged, they would’ve never walked.”

Kirkpatrick’s attorney defended his client, telling News 12 that she is a “young lady with no prior criminal history and for the most part is law-abiding.” The defense attorney added that they are reviewing the case and plan to defend her in court.

Location & Road Context

The fatal crash occurred at the intersection of Bagatelle Road and the South Service Road in Melville, a busy area that serves as a connection point between local streets and the Long Island Expressway service road system. The South Service Road runs parallel to the LIE and carries significant traffic volume throughout the day and night.

The 1 a.m. timing of the crash occurred during typically low-traffic hours, when visibility can be challenging for both motorists and cyclists on the roadway.

News 12 reached out to the Suffolk County District Attorney’s Office about whether additional charges may be filed beyond the current DWI charge and is awaiting a response. The family’s push for manslaughter charges reflects their belief that the current charges are insufficient given the fatal outcome of the crash.

The next court date is scheduled for Dec. 22, following the adjournment from the hearing that was held Monday. The family’s complaint about being misinformed about the initial court date adds another layer to their concerns about how the case is being handled by the legal system.

Broader Impact

In New York State, vehicular manslaughter charges can be pursued in DWI cases that result in death, carrying significantly more severe penalties than standard DWI charges. The distinction between the charges often becomes a focal point for families seeking what they view as appropriate justice for their loss, particularly when they believe the initial charges don’t adequately reflect the severity of taking a life while driving under the influence.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What should I do if I'm in a car accident Lie in Melville?

Call 911 immediately if anyone is injured or if the vehicles can't be moved safely off the roadway. Stay at the scene — leaving the scene of an accident with injuries is a crime under New York Vehicle and Traffic Law §600. Exchange license, registration, and insurance information with every other driver involved. Take photographs of every vehicle, the position of the vehicles before they're moved, all license plates, the road surface, traffic signs, and any visible injuries. Get the names and phone numbers of every witness — police often won't capture bystander witnesses on their own. Seek medical attention within 24 hours even if you feel fine; soft-tissue injuries and concussions can take a day or two to present, and a delayed medical visit weakens an injury claim. SCPD covers the five western towns of Suffolk County. The five East End towns (Southampton, East Hampton, Riverhead, Southold, Shelter Island) have their own town/village police forces. New York State Police Troop L responds to accidents on state highways including I-495 (LIE), Sunrise Highway (NY-27), Sagtikos Parkway, and Heckscher State Parkway.

How long do I have to file a no-fault claim in New York?

Thirty days. New York Insurance Law §5102 requires you to file a Personal Injury Protection (PIP/no-fault) application with the insurer of the vehicle you were in (or, if you were a pedestrian or cyclist, with the insurer of the striking vehicle) within 30 days of the accident. Missing the 30-day deadline can void your no-fault benefits — that's up to $50,000 in medical bills and 80% of lost wages (capped at $2,000/month) per injured person. The form is the NF-2 application; your insurance carrier provides it on request. New York no-fault is a true PIP system: it pays regardless of who caused the crash.

What counts as a "serious injury" under New York law?

Under Insurance Law §5102(d), a "serious injury" is one that meets at least one of these categories: (1) death; (2) dismemberment; (3) significant disfigurement; (4) a fracture; (5) loss of a fetus; (6) permanent loss of use of a body organ, member, function, or system; (7) permanent consequential limitation of use of a body organ or member; (8) significant limitation of use of a body function or system; or (9) a medically determined injury that prevents the injured person from performing substantially all daily activities for at least 90 of the first 180 days following the accident. Only injuries that meet one of these nine categories create the right to sue the at-fault driver for pain and suffering damages — short of that threshold, recovery is limited to no-fault PIP benefits. Disputes over whether an injury meets the threshold are the single most-litigated issue in NY motor-vehicle cases.

How long do I have to sue after a Long Island car accident?

Three years from the date of the accident for personal injury claims under CPLR §214(5). Wrongful death claims have a two-year deadline under EPTL §5-4.1. If a government entity is involved (a county vehicle, a road defect on a state highway, a defective traffic signal, a county bus), you must file a Notice of Claim within 90 days under General Municipal Law §50-e — that's a non-negotiable jurisdictional deadline, and missing it usually bars the claim entirely. Property-damage-only claims have the same three-year clock. The clock starts on the day of the accident, not the day you discover the full extent of an injury.

Can I still recover compensation if I was partly at fault?

Yes. New York is a pure comparative negligence state under CPLR §1411. Even if you were 90% at fault, you can still recover 10% of your damages. (A pending 2026 budget proposal would change this to a 51% bar — meaning a plaintiff who is more than 50% at fault would recover nothing — but that hasn't passed.) Insurance carriers routinely try to inflate the injured driver's percentage of fault to reduce payouts. The percentage assignment is decided by the jury at trial (or negotiated during settlement); it isn't fixed by the police accident report and isn't binding even when the report assigns fault. Reporting practice and the actual legal apportionment are separate questions.

Who can file a wrongful death claim in New York?

Under EPTL §5-4.1, only the personal representative (executor or administrator) of the deceased's estate can bring a wrongful death action — not the deceased's family directly. The estate is opened in Surrogate's Court of the county where the deceased lived. Damages flow to the spouse, children, parents, and other distributees defined under EPTL §4-1.1. Recoverable damages include loss of financial support, loss of parental guidance for surviving children, and conscious pre-death pain and suffering (recovered through a separate "survival action" under EPTL §11-3.2). New York is unusual in NOT allowing surviving family members to recover for their own emotional grief — only economic losses to the estate. The wrongful-death two-year statute of limitations is shorter than the three-year personal-injury statute, so the deadline is critical.

How do I get a copy of the police accident report?

If Suffolk County Police Department (SCPD) responded to the scene, the report is filed under an MV-104A form. In New York State, you can request a copy through the DMV at https://dmv.ny.gov/vehicle-safety/get-copy-accident-report (roughly $7 online, $10 by mail) once the responding agency has uploaded it to the state system, which usually takes 5-10 business days. NCPD and SCPD also have their own direct-request processes through the precinct that responded. If you weren't injured but the property damage exceeded $1,000, New York VTL §605 requires you (the driver) to file your own MV-104 report with the DMV within 10 days regardless of whether police responded.

How dangerous is Lie near Melville?

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